Soirée câlins – Cuddle Evening

Soirée Câlins Platonique – Every first Wednesday of the month in Liège

Every first Wednesday of the month, we invite you to experience a platonic cuddle evening in Liège: a moment to get together, arm-in-arm, and enjoy the magic of conscious, gentle and respectful contact.

We also occasionally offer cuddle evenings in other cities, such as Namur or Brussels in Belgium, and Aachen in Germany.

During these evenings, we create together a space of safety and presence, where we can deeply relax, reconnect to ourselves and to others, and experience that rare and precious feeling: that of being connected. As if, for a moment, we were all one. This kind of experience can soothe the mind, liberate the heart and deeply relax the nervous system, often strained by the hectic pace of everyday life.

The evening begins with a review of the common framework: rules, intentions, freedoms and limits for everyone. We’ll explore consent through simple games for expressing needs, saying yes, no, or maybe, and welcoming the other’s responses with kindness. We’ll also propose small connection games to experiment with different qualities of touch.

Here, touch goes beyond simple physical contact. It becomes a subtle language, a gateway to a deeper connection with oneself and others. Everyone is welcomed as they are, with their impulses, brakes, limits and desires. Couples are free to define their own agreements, whether exclusive or open. A time is set aside at the beginning of the evening to set your personal intentions.

All gender identities, body types, origins and ages are welcome. The framework is based on three foundations: respect, consent and benevolence. Every gesture, every hug is an invitation – never an obligation. You are free to participate or not at any time.

This cuddle party is an event without nudity, sexual intent or interaction. It’s a platonic space.

To find out more about the intention behind platonique, read my blog article by clicking here.
It’s designed to be a deeply human, rejuvenating space, a bubble of tenderness where the heart can open out in all simplicity.

free price according to conscience :

between €0-60
(Value: €30)

The intention of cuddle parties

Our aim is to create a community of love, a large conscious family, eager to share together the openness of heart, presence and sensitivity. We want to offer a safe, privileged space where everyone can feel welcome as they are, in a spirit of love, respect and connection.

These cuddle parties are open to all. They are inclusive and LGBT+++ friendly spaces. Everyone is welcome with their sexual orientation, gender identity, body shape and age. Everyone is also welcome with their needs, limits and fears. To put it another way, it’s a space where we advocategender equality (where we’re not assigned to predetermined gender roles), acceptance of diversity, differences and individuality. We take care to avoid systemic oppression (grossophobia, homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, putophobia, classism, etc.). It’s a space where we ask everyone to respect each other. . We also ask everyone to be aware when a judgment is made, and to reflect on that judgment and the reaction it provokes in them. To keep this space safe, we ask you to be aware of the words you use in your exchanges.

You can come alone or as a couple. Couples can choose to stay together or share moments with other participants.

Registration and information

If you feel called, please fill in this questionnaire as completely as possible. Your age, gender, shape or sexual orientation is not a selection criterion. These questions are there to help us get to know you better and assess where you are on your life’s journey, so that we can sense what kind of care will be needed in the future.

We’ll review your application, and if we think you can fit into the energy of the evening, you’ll receive an invitation. People who have been recommended to us or whom we’ve already met in person at a massage or workshop are more likely to receive an invitation, as we know them personally.

With all our love, Steffi and Nico

“I discovered Nicolas’ activities through a “Cuddle night” organized by him and his partner, Steffi. It’s a type of activity I’d never done before and, to be honest, I went into it with a certain amount of trepidation. Clearly, I wanted to experience tenderness in a non-sexual context, but a lot of questions were running through my mind: Wasn’t it going to be weird, a bit uncomfortable? How would it go? And if I didn’t like someone, how could I push them away without hurting their feelings?

Within minutes of my arrival, these concerns melted like snow in the sun: Nico and Steffi immediately established a climate of trust, where safety and consent were the watchwords. With a mixture of awareness and humor, they laid down the rules which then enabled the evening to flow smoothly, gently and enthusiastically. They were always present in the room, keeping a watchful eye to ensure that everyone’s experience was excellent. Really, if the concept appeals to you, you can go with your eyes closed. Thank you Nico & Steffi “

Denis

Timetable

Arriving between 18:30 & 18:50h /
Closing container 18:50h !!!

Conscious donation

(Value of the evening: 30 €)
A donation box will be available on site if you wish to support our project.

The Intention of the evening

Our intention is to create a love community, a big conscious family, that wants to share together the openness of the heart, presence and the sensitivity.

We want to offer a special, safe space where everyone can feel welcome as they are, in a spirit of love, respect and connection.

These cuddle events are open to everyone. They are inclusive and LGBT+++ friendly spaces. Everyone is welcome, whatever their sexual orientation, gender identity, body shape or age. Everyone is also welcome with their needs, limits and fears. In other words, this is a space that stands for gender equality (wehre we are not assigned to predetermined gender roles), acceptance of diversity, differences and the uniqueness of each individual. We take care to avoid systemic oppression (grossophobia, homophobia, transphobia, racism, sexism, putophobia, classism, etc.). This is a space where we ask everyone to respect each other. We also ask everybody to be aware when a judgement is coming up and to reflect about it and the reaction inside of you. In order that this space stays a safe one we ask for your consciousness about the words you use in your sharings.

You can come alone or as a couple. Couples can be open or exclusive with each other. You will have the opportunity to share your limits with the group.

Registration & information

If you feel called, please complete this questionnaire as fully as possible. Your age, gender, shape or sexual orientation is not a selection criterion. These questions are there to help us get to know you better and assess where you are on your life path so that we can feel what kind of care will be needed the space.

We’ll look at your application and if we feel you can fit in with the energy of the evening, you’ll receive an invitation. People who have been recommended to us or people we’ve already met in person at a massage or workshop are more likely to receive an invitation because we know them personally.

With love, Steffi & Nico

“I discovered Nicolas’ activities through a ‘Cuddle Night’ organized by him and his partner, Steffi. It was a type of experience I had never tried before, and to be honest, I approached it with some apprehension. I was certainly eager to experience tenderness in a non-sexual context, but many questions raced through my mind: Would it feel strange or awkward? How would the evening unfold? And if I didn’t feel comfortable with someone, how could I set a boundary without hurting them?

Barely a few minutes after arriving, all these concerns melted away like snow in the sun. Nico and Steffi immediately created an atmosphere of trust, where safety and consent were the guiding principles. With a perfect mix of mindfulness and humor, they established clear guidelines that allowed the evening to flow smoothly, filled with warmth and enthusiasm. They remained present in the room at all times, attentively ensuring that everyone had a positive experience.

Honestly, if this concept appeals to you, you can go with complete confidence. Thank you, Nico & Steffi!”

Denis