My clients often ask me for reading advice. Here is a shared list of books that touch on Tantra, Tao, slowsex, personal development,… These are all books that have opened my mind, my sensitivity, my vision of the world, of others and of myself. There are many more, and I’ll add to this list as I go along…
Would you like to share your opinion on a book or suggest a book that has touched you? Share it in the comments at the bottom of this page.
-TAO – The multiorgasmic man and woman
My path encountered the teachings of Mantak-Chia during a trip to India in 2005. This opened up my awareness of how to use and control my sexual energy.
I discovered that a man could have several orgasms. As well as having an orgasm without ejaculation.
I also learned to use my sexual energy for my creativity, health and passion for life. It was a revelation. I then went on to train in the Tao of the multi-orgasmic man. And today I give Tao courses for those who wish to be guided on this path.
Mantak Chia and “L’homme multi-orgasmique : l’énergie sexuelle masculine” or the female version “Le Tao de l’amour retrouvé : L’énergie sexuelle féminine” are two bibles for men and women wishing to follow Mantak Chia’s teachings. They are completely accessible, but taking a course will make it easier for you to get to grips with them.
I’d also like to suggest the book “Le couple multi-orgasmique” by Mantak Chia.
Mantak Chia is a Taoist master who created the Universal Tao School. He still teaches in Thailand.
TANTRA – The tantric lover
I recommend reading “L’amant tantric: L’homme sur la voie de la sexualité sacrée” by Jacques Ferber.
This is another book that strongly inspired me about ten years ago. In the first few chapters, when I read the description of how Jacques saw women and their feminine energy, I felt the call to be able to live the same experience. It deeply helped me to open my heart, to support the work of every man and woman I come into contact with in my daily life or in my care. What’s more, I love the way he links tantra and tao, which I also try to do in the tantra workshops I offer.
Jacques Ferber, author and teacher, has been teaching Tantra for many years.
TANTRA – The art of sexual ecstasy
If you’re looking for a book full of exercises to practice as a couple, and also a wonderful biography of a tantrika who was taught directly by Osho, I recommend reading Margot Anand’s “The Art of Sexual Ecstasy”.
This rather thick book recounts Margot Anand’s initatic journey with Osho and other Tantrika. In addition, she shares numerous exercises to be done alone or as a couple. Her teaching is also a great source of inspiration for the tantric workshops and tantric explorations I offer in individual sessions.
BIOENERGIE by Stephane Cardinaux
I recommend reading Stéphane Cardinaux’s Bioénergie. When I first discovered his work, it was through the book on sacred geometries.
I was very touched by the precision of his experiences and his feelings. I took several courses with him and discovered bioenergy, which is the approach to the human body through our energy fields. This enabled me to develop my sensitivity and confirm my ability to perceive a part of the invisible world.
Stephane Cardianaux is an architect and has been a geobiology researcher for many years. He is currently a bioenergy trainer. He creates a link between science, psychology and spirituality. He offers us an opportunity to enhance our extrasensory perceptions and feelings. This book is very well produced.
If you would like to be introduced to bioenergy, I offer training courses.
Slow Sex: Making love with awareness
Diana Richardson’s teaching has helped me on my journey as a couple. To be able to listen more attentively to my partners’ needs, to increase my perceptions and my emotional and physical sensitivity. To be more in touch with the subtlety of my sexual energy and that of my partners.
I recommend the book “Slow Sex: Faire l’amour en consience” which is just another way of talking about Tantra.
Contains many reflections on the couple’s relationship. On communication and exercises to practice for a harmonious relationship.
In the same vein, there’s Barry Long’s book“Making love the divine way“. It’s also about slowsex. I don’t resonate with all his vision, more specifically on the lack of balance between woman and man. But on the other hand, he proposes a beautiful way of feeling that can help many couples to rediscover intimacy.
Jouissance Club: Mapping pleasure
A delightful book by Jüne Plä for those who love sex and want more … Hundreds of illustrations to help you discover and rediscover sexual pleasure. For men and women… The texts are super-inclusive, allowing everyone to find their place.
“Jouissance Club: Une cartographie du plaisir” is a great book to give yourself or someone you love… Open to any page… and try it !!!
The book is translated into lots of different languages… international gift!!!!
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Serene Free Relationships
A little gem. Two authors with a wealth of experience in open relationships. A book I love because it supports couples in the process of opening up, individuals who are searching for themselves, people who need more freedom. A book that speaks to me because it’s super inclusive of all sexual identities and orientations.
Ethical Slut offers tools to work on jealousy, on communicating our needs and limits, on the image we have of ourselves and of others.
It’s a great tool for opening up your relationship or for polyamorous relationships. But also for exclusive couples who want better communication.
I often recommend it to people who come for guidance and support on all these topics during the polyamory or non-exclusive relationship coaching I offer.
Yoni massage guide
And here’s my contribution. Le guide du Yoni Massage (Nicolas Deru). An Ebook I wrote two years ago on the practice of yoni massage. (Feminine intimate massage). In this book I share my vision of tantric massage and the practice of intimate massage for women. You can use it to massage your partner or yourself. In this book I share the essential ingredients for a successful intimate massage as well as numerous techniques and movements to offer a magnificent journey.
A few other books that I’ve enjoyed, that open my consciousness or that I find interesting. Some are brighter than others … Enjoy your reading
Spirituality :
Tantra by Daniel Odier
Autobiography of a Yogi by Yogananda
The Life of the Masters by Baird T. Spalding
Petal of Grace by Sai Maa Lakshmi Devi
Femininity:
Female cycle and natural contraception: For a conscious and fulfilled femininity by Audrey Guillemaud
Red Moon: The forces of the female cycle by Miranda Gray
Red Moon Teens: The key to happiness for your cyclical daughter by Miranda Gray
Personal development:
The Power of the Present Moment by Eckhart Tolle
The Andes Prophecy: In Pursuit of the Secret Manuscript in the Peruvian Jungle by JAMES REDFIELD
The Four Toltec Agreements: The path to personal freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz
The Peaceful Warrior: The Fascinating Adventure of Self-Conquest by Dan Millman
TheAlchemist – by Paulo Coelho
TheAlchemist – by Paulo Coelho (special edition illustrated by Moebius; a comic book artist I adore)
Le grand dictionnaire des malaises et des maladies by Jacques Martel
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