Tantric massage in Liège and energy treatments
For a stronger connection with your body and your self
My team and I guide you on the path of discovery with energy treatments, coaching, intuitive rituals and tantric massages in Liège. We offer these services at my tantra massage center in Liège.
All the masseurs and masseuses on my team are trained by me, and thus embody the values and approach of “La Voie du Plaisir”. When making an appointment, please specify whether you wish to be massaged by me, Nicolas Deru, or by one of my colleagues.
In tantric massage, the whole body can be massaged, and there are basically no taboo areas. This can include the intimate parts (Yoni massage or Lingam massage). Yoni is the word for female private parts, and lingam for male private parts. Intimate massage and nudity are not compulsory! At each session, we’ll have a discussion to talk about your needs and limits in order to create a protective framework for your experience. To remember: Tantric massage is tailor-made for you!
“Tantra massage is a wonderful way to get your sexual energy flowing, rekindle your inner fire, release blockages and wounds. Gain confidence in your body, access a new state of consciousness.”
In this video, Nicolas explains the different stages of a tantric massage: the time of welcome, how to set limits, the oil massage and the importance of listening to the body.
Why a tantric massage?
This well-being ritual is designed to awaken your body to a physical, energetic and spiritual journey through conscious, empathetic touch.
I invite you to take part in a ritual in which (at your request) every part of your body can be honored, massaged and given special attention. Tantric massage is a wonderful way to get your life energy flowing, rekindle your inner fire, learn to let go, get to know your body better and love it as it is. On this journey, we help you gain confidence in your body and reach a new state of awareness.
Awakening the kundalini
This bodily practice can awaken sensations and vibrations throughout your body to circulate your sexual energy along your spine (kundalini), connecting your pelvis, yoni or lingam to your heart and head via the various chakras (energy centers). The word comes from the Sanskrit “kundalinī”, meaning “coiled upon itself” – this latent force, when awakened, flows through the body’s energy centers, awakening awareness, pleasure and inner expansion. Develop your inner strength by exploring your senses and experience a moment of deep relaxation and reconciliation with your body. And finally, release the pleasure and joie de vivre in every cell of your body.
I invite you to receive this sacred touch to awaken your whole body. We offer this massage in a naturist way, so if you prefer to wear underwear, that’s of course possible. And we can also wear underwear. Your body type, age and gender are of no importance.
The framework of a tantric massage in our massage center
Before each massage, we will define the framework of the massage with you, so that it respects your well-being and your limits, as well as those of the masseur or masseuse. To find out more, click here:
Massage energy
Before the massage, we will take time to discuss the energy you wish to explore during the tantric massage session.
All our massages are given with the energy of the heart and tenderness.
If your sexual energy awakens during the session and you wish to be guided in its circulation, we can welcome it and help it to diffuse throughout your body.
The massage can thus take on a more sensual or erotic dimension, depending on your desire. In this case, we can support and play with this energy, inviting you to explore your sensual and erotic potential.
Orgasm is not the goal of massage, but if it does occur, it is welcomed.
A massage in which we make your sexual energy circulate and vibrate can enable you to experience your body differently, to experiment with new sensations, and perhaps even to discover your multi-orgasmic potential.
All this will be discussed and clarified together before the start of the session.
RESPECT YOUR LIMITS
In all our practices, as a tantra masseur or tantric masseuse, we are careful to discuss and respect your limits and needs. It’s your treatment, your journey, and we’re at your service to guide you along the path to the best. You can, of course, contact us at any time during the treatment to find out if the touch is right for you, if you need modifications or if you’d like to end the massage. We adapt to your well-being and your rhythm!
YONI MASSAGE AND LINGAM MASSAGE
During this tantric initiation, we’ll listen to what your body is telling us. If your body, heart and soul call for intimate contact, we can offer you a yoni(tantric massage for women) or lingam(tantric massage for men) treatment, or a tantra treatment for trans people. A moment to honor the temple of your deepest intimacy with gentleness and respect. A moment of great liberation and transformation for many women and men. We also offer this massage for couples.
Just so you know: sometimes our mind wants contact for which the body is not (yet) ready. If, during the session, we have the impression that the head and the body are asking for different things, we reserve the right, in your interest, not to carry out the intimate touch!
For your information, here are the most frequently asked questions about our tantra rituals:
We also offer massage exchanges for those who wish to experiment with the role of giver-se.
Initiations to tantric massage are also available, as well as training courses for those who wish to explore this further.
Our team of tantric masseurs and masseuses
I’m pleased to introduce you to some of my team, who I’ve been training carefully for several years. Here are the main masseurs and masseuses of my tantric massage center in Belgium, with whom I work in confidence.
You can find out more about each of us by clicking on the photos!
You can also discover many testimonials from our customers.
I look forward to guiding you on this intimate and transformative journey.
. – Nicolas Deru
Crystal
Massage rates
Discover all our prices for tantric massages and other energetic or holistic treatments.
“A tantric massage with Nicolas is a story of encounters: encounters with oneself, encounters with others. Fear is there at the start… Being massaged, naked, by a stranger, with this body that we judge to be imperfect… And then, I walk through the door, the stress is still there. But Nicolas is there, welcoming, guiding and present. Fear gives way to presence. His kindness and gentle touch transform the experience. I feel free, light, reconciled with my body, filled with love for myself and for others. Thank you for this encounter.””
Juliette
Frequently asked questions
How does a tantric massage work?
How does a tantric massage work?
In this video, I’ll take you step-by-step through a tantric massage at our tantra massage center.
You may also like to visit this page : How does a tantric massage work? – La Voie du Plaisir
Do you give energetic tantric massages?
Tantric massage is an energetic, spiritual, emotional and physical experience. Your experience will depend on your energetic, spiritual and emotional openness on the day of the massage. It will also depend on the experience of the person accompanying you. If you have particular expectations in terms of energetic care, I invite you to let me know when you book your appointment and to either do the massage with me (Nicolas), as I’m very sensitive to energies, aura, chakras, kundalini, blockages, or if you prefer to be massaged by a woman, I’ll make an appointment with my most suitable colleague.
Will my limits be respected?
Tantric massage stems from the Tantric tradition, which integrates eroticism and sensuality as natural aspects of the human experience. However, unlike a traditional erotic or sensual massage, the aim of tantric massage is not the pursuit of immediate physical or sexual pleasure, but rather a path of self-exploration, energy and vitality. Within this framework, eroticism and sensuality are used as powerful tools to awaken awareness, release tension and harmonize the body’s energies. Although tantric massage can awaken intense sensations and a deep connection with sensuality, it is first and foremost a spiritual and self-connecting process that aims to create a space for healing, presence and inner expansion.
What if I don't feel well during the session?
At any time during the session, if something doesn’t suit you or doesn’t suit you anymore, you can express it so that we can rectify the touch or what’s wrong. At any time you can say that you’d like to stop or that you need something else. This is a space where we put ourselves at the service of your experience. And we’ll co-create a massage that’s right for you, while respecting each other’s limits.
Can I have an orgasm?
Orgasm is not an end in itself in tantric massage. But it is welcome.
Our intention is to take you into the present moment, there’s no performance to be had. So there may or may not be orgasms. There may or may not be desire, erection, ejaculation, ecstasy, waves of pleasure. It will be your experience, and you’ll be welcome just as you are at that moment.
I've been a victim of sexual abuse or violence. Could tantric massage help me?
Tantric massage is an incredible tool to help re-inform your body and brain, so they can regain a sense of security. For this, it’s essential to work with someone experienced in this field. Please let me know when you book your appointment. You can choose to receive the massage with me (Nicolas), or, if you prefer to be massaged by a woman, I’ll direct you to my most suitable colleague. We’ll be there to guide you in reclaiming your body, so that you can live a fulfilling intimate life.
However, it is important to point out that we are not therapists. We therefore advise you to have already undertaken therapeutic guidance on this subject.
I also invite you to let us know if you’ve been abused, preferably when you book your appointment or, if it’s more convenient, before the massage. This will enable us to adapt the massage to take care of this wound. If you feel the need, we can also, with your verbal agreement, ask you if you’re comfortable with certain parts of your body being touched, to give you the space to assert your needs and limits and enable you to actively reconnect to your power.
Do I have to undress completely during a tantric massage? Do I have to be naked?
In a tantric massage, nothing is obligatory!
Usually, the person being massaged is naked, so we can massage the whole body without any cuts or obstacles. But if you want to keep your underwear on, you can, and we’ll adapt to the situation. If during the massage you change your mind, you can take them off or put them back on. It’s your body and we’ll support you, whatever you choose. Please also know that the space I offer with “La Voie du Plaisir” is a judgment-free space. Whatever your age, your body shape, the size of your private parts, your gender, your sexual orientation, you’re welcome. It’s a place to learn to love your body as it is, to take care of it, to receive love, gentleness, sensuality and tenderness. It’s also a place to learn, where you can take your first steps at your own pace and in safety.
Is the masseuse naked?
There are many different types of tantric massage, from many different traditions. In our center, we generally practice nude massage for a number of reasons, which I’ll explain in a moment. However, this is by no means an obligation. If you prefer us to be clothed, we can of course massage with underwear or a sarong.
Here’s why we choose to massage naked:
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We want to avoid any power dynamics between us and the person being massaged. As this person is likely to be naked and therefore in a state of vulnerability, we also bare ourselves so that we are on an equal footing, in the same state of vulnerability.
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We massage with our whole body, creating a skin-to-skin experience that offers security, protection, warmth, softness, sensuality and tenderness.
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The amount of sensations we can offer by using our whole body is far greater than if we only used our hands. What’s more, wearing underwear would create a textile contact that could become unpleasant during the massage.
That said, as mentioned above, if it makes you feel better, it’s perfectly possible to massage in your underwear. You can make this clear during the pre-massage discussion.
Can I touch the person massaging me?
Each masseur or masseuse has his or her own limits, which will be expressed before the massage. If you don’t respect the limits, the masseur will have to protect himself or herself, and will no longer be able to offer you the openness he or she intended. If you’re not sure whether your touch is appropriate, ask! If you don’t respect the limits that have been announced by the person he’s massaging, then the massage will be stopped and the session will be due.
How long does a massage last?
We don’t calculate time with a stopwatch. The tantric experience begins when you make the appointment, when you’re on site (often between 2h30 and 3h for a full massage); there will be a time for discussion, a time for massage, a time for feedback, and a shower or two. Finally, there’s time for integration during the following weeks.
How does a tantric massage session work?
Generally speaking, for a first tantric massage at our center in Liège, we’ll take a moment to welcome you. This is an opportunity to get to know each other. We’ll start with a chat, during which you can explain why you’re here, what your intention is, what your needs are and what your limits are. We’ll also explain in detail how the massage works, its framework and its limits.
Then we’ll give you a sarong and you can go and have a shower (unless, of course, you’ve already had one just before you arrived and you’re still feeling fresh). You’ll then return in your pareo to the massage room.
The massage will begin with a connection ritual, then unfold progressively. The massage begins with the sarong. We usually massage the hands, feet and head, so that you can relax before removing the sarong to continue the massage on the rest of the body. All you have to do is let yourself be guided on a journey through your body – physically, energetically and emotionally. Tantric massage is a massage of the whole body, including the intimate parts (yoni and lingam). However, this is of course not an obligation. If you don’t feel like it, or don’t feel ready for the experience, we’ll leave these areas out.
At the end of the massage, there will be a time of integration. Then we’ll have a moment of sharing to see how it went for you.
You can end the session by taking a shower or letting the oil (organic coconut and sesame) soak into your skin.
Can I receive a massage even if I've never done tantra?
Yes, you can have a tantric massage, even if you’ve never practiced tantra before. Tantric massage is accessible to everyone, whatever your level of experience or familiarity with the practice. During your first massage, we’ll take the time to explain the process, clarify your expectations and make sure you feel comfortable and at ease. Above all, it’s a time to relax, explore and connect with yourself. You can go at your own pace, and we’ll be there to provide guidance.
Do you offer tantric massages for all genders and orientations?
Yes, welcome, whatever your gender, sex, identity or orientation. Welcome if you are straight, gay, lesbian, trans, non-binary. We offer queer and inclusive tantra.
Is a tantric massage for women different from a tantric massage for men?
Tantric massage is based on universal principles of energy, connection and presence, and is equally powerful whether practiced for a woman or a man. What makes a tantric massage for women or for men unique is the adaptation of the practice to each person’s specific needs, sensitivity and energy. Together with my team, we personalize each experience to create a space of well-being and deep relaxation, respecting each person’s expectations and limits. We ensure that each tantra massage for women or tantra massage for men is an intimate and respectful journey, encouraging the exploration of sensuality and vitality, in a safe and caring environment.
Does tantric massage have a sexual dimension?
That’s an excellent question. Tantric massage is a holistic massage, which means it takes the whole person into account. Sexuality is part of being human, and so this dimension is welcome in massage. More precisely, your sexual energy is welcome if it’s present, but there’s nothing to force. If it’s not present, that’s fine too. You may feel desire, have an erection, feel aroused, or even have an orgasm. But it’s also perfectly normal not to experience this. There’s no notion of performance.
On the other hand, it’s important to specify that you won’t be penetrated, or penetrated, by the masseur’s or masseuse’s sex into your genitals. This is a massage, not intercourse.
For a second massage, you can ask for an internal massage (yoni or anal). In this case, the massage will be performed with the hands. We’ll discuss this before the massage and ask for your permission during the session to make sure you still want it.
Is tantric massage erotic or sensual?
Tantric massage stems from the Tantric tradition, which integrates eroticism and sensuality as natural aspects of the human experience. However, unlike a traditional erotic or sensual massage, the aim of tantric massage is not the pursuit of immediate physical or sexual pleasure, but rather a path of self-exploration, energy and vitality. Within this framework, eroticism and sensuality are used as powerful tools to awaken awareness, release tension and harmonize the body’s energies. Although tantric massage can awaken intense sensations and a deep connection with sensuality, it is first and foremost a spiritual and self-connecting process that aims to create a space for healing, presence and inner expansion.
Do you offer same-day appointments?
No, there’s a waiting list of several days or even weeks, depending on the masseur or masseuse. It’s best to book in advance, but you can always try your luck, as places sometimes become available due to cancellations.
Is there a cancellation fee?
Any cancellation of a massage within 72 hours before the massage will be charged €100 as compensation.
Any cancellation of a massage on the day of the massage will be billed at 50% (min 100 €) of the treatment (compensation for my travel, heating of the room, rental …)
Thank you for your understanding
How are your prices set?
I’m not a therapist, nor a psychologist, nor a sexologist,… With La Voie du Plaisir and its guidance, I activate a movement in the people who come to see us, thanks to personal development tools such as tantra, tao and other techniques I’ve acquired along my life’s path. I do not receive any subsidies, and our clients are unfortunately not entitled to mutual reimbursement…
Our hourly costs (massage, coaching, training…) are calculated so that I can keep my business running, pay the bills, and try to earn enough to support my family and colleagues. Which, as a self-employed person in Belgium, is not an easy thing to do.
My intention is to help human beings who so desire, to connect to their essence, to each of the facets they wish to experience in this existence. To free themselves from their trauma, from their limitations, in order to find harmony in their intimate lives and in their relationships with themselves and others.
The energy and presence we put into our massages means we can’t do several a day, so each guidance session is unique and a gift of self.
The prices we charge are based on our costs, our needs and the time we can devote to our services.
In the event of financial problems on your part, we are always open to discussion.
How much do you charge for a tantric massage in Liège?
I invite you to visit our prices page for an individual tantric massage here and for a couple tantric massage here.
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Cancellation policy:
Any cancellation of a treatment within 72 hours before the appointment will be charged € 100 as compensation. Any cancellation of a treatment on the day of the appointment will be charged 50% (min 100 €) of the treatment (compensation for my travel, heating of the room, rental …)
Thank you for your understanding!
